Closure

Closing a relationship that used to be the most cherished puts anyone in a very unimaginable consequences To some, it is the most painful situation and it is something that is hard to accept whilst, others think it is the best thing to do. 

It's not always easy for anyone make the first move to call for a break up. You've got to think of the right way to do it.

Funny, sometimes those who asked for closure didn't really mean it. Inside the owner of a disappointed heart actually wants to express that there is somethng wrong going on and tired of understanding his or her partner. He or she hopes that his or her love will recognize the pain and might tried to apologize, fix it and ends with an agreement to settle. Or, the other way around to find out if it is really worth staying together. In the end, the result is much more pain than you have ever had. The most crucial action is to call for a break up if you don't really mean it. In the end, you will be the one who will be hurt most. Try to give some time, make a list on how you can settle this as much as possible and if not, how far you are ready to step forward away from this relationship. 

While the rest amongst us who actually wants to end up a relationship surprisingly run out of courage to directly say to his or her partner. The guilty person ends it up with short text message,  a phone call, maybe slowly do it by pretending to be busy and other funny excuses or simply vanished without saying goodbye and leave the other person hanging on air with a big question mark. Some even tried the blaming game to cover up the guilt.  It's not really fair but the fact is, you have already designed your plan for yourself and must go out of this. Well, maybe you just got to let the person find someone else better than you.

A relationship without a closure left the person who have the deepest feeling hopes for an explanation. If in case you are in this position, would you still care to wait for few months posssibly few more years? And if  you met him or her again, would you ask for a date to find out what really happened? If yes, definitely because you still love that person and still hope you can accept his or her explanation Don't say you are just curious or wants to build a friendship with that person, after all for what do you need to find out why when it's very obvious that he or she left you in his or her own way? You can forgive a person without linking yourself again. Prepare yourself if you give the opportunity to open the past, what has happened in the past can possibly occcur again. It's alright if you are ready to take any consequences. You should know how much your heart can take. 

Not sure if there will come a time that the person who left will realize what emotional damage was caused by his or her negligence and cowardness. Unless, he or she has never been happy with other relationships maybe he or she will not realize the damage however, will realize how precious is the person he or she has left.For whatever reason, when you don't feel like staying in a relationship you've got to do it properly with full courage.  The truth will lead both of your hearts and minds to move forward and find the door for a better future. 

Closure happened because that was not the right door for you. Someday, you will find a door that is widely open to welcome you and will never let you go. - GRACELENE

Every morning is a promise of possibilities.

And even when the day has passed and your greatest wish did not come true, sleep well for there is another tomorrow with a new promise. Maybe it's what you wished for, maybe something better but never ever let your feelings keep you down. Life keeps on moving each day you wake up and you've got to keep your faith and your hopes, and most of all keep yourself moving to a brighter tomorrow.

You've got to think of a positive direction every morning.

Have you ever wonder?

Have you ever thought once in your life that life has been unfair? Or ever wonder that life has been joking with you sometimes?


For example, when you have done your best on something else thinking it's the right thing and oppps...something came up and it was given to somebody else. Or let us take the other way around, something best is just in front of you and you've just let it go or just have to let it go.

Have you ever wonder why there are some people who worked hard all their life and died without experiencing the best moments in life? While there are others who were born with all the luck that they don't have to tried hard yet seems everything comes easy.

Have you ever loved the same people all your life without even asking why and even sometimes, you feel that they don't give back the same emotions you have given to them? Why can't you just tell yourself to forget about them? Oh...can't you erase in your mind that one true love? an affair that never  had a happy ending and yet, it makes you smile just having his picture in your memory.

Aren't you the master of yourself? Or in general, why can't you control your own emotions, your had habits, your desires and your indulgence?

There have been so many questions in life that we could not find any answers or maybe does not need to be answered. Sometimes, we were given some clue but did not provide an acceptable answers or reasons.

There comes a time that we almost give up on trying, so afraid that all our effort will turn into waste. But then, your life moves on. You will sleep every night when you get tired, then wake up again next morning, work and eat to live again. And you've got to do what life has asked you to do.

Life is like travelling on a nowhere road. Lucky are those who were lead to smooth roads whilst most are taken to a rough, bending and confusing roads.

Just move on and stop wondering. Life is unpredictable, Just do your best to be good,  at least you don't have to be guilty that you've done the wrong way and you'll walk with pride that you did not neglect what life has given to you. Never mind what comes next or whatever will come... time will let you cope up with it.

Keep on smiling, listen to music, and maybe sing along with your favourite song. Life goes on while your heart is still beating. God knows when you will rest from all the pains, and maybe who knows before you retire from this life, you'll find the best answer to all your questions.